climax

...for women, recovery time between climaxes is minimal or nonexistent.  She may be swollen and sensitive, but can usually continue to make love if all the attention is not placed directly on the tip of her clitoris.

lips

Lips deserve the extra attention they implore.  Try slow and soft nibbles, beginning on her lower lip.  She'll tingle with anticipation when you spend some time emulating on her sensitive mouth just how you plan to eat her pussy.

lick

Variation is fun but if the rhythm and level of pressure are working, stick to the beat.

wet

Just as more lubrication is sometimes required, a woman can also be too wet for her ultimate enjoyment.  Comfortable and truly satisfying sex involves texture and demands some friction.

LESBIAN SEX 101

Chapter 1 Lilith and Eve

This lovemaking position is all about Eve, who lies on her back, her legs wrapped around the seated Lilith.  Eve's every indulgence is catered to by teh attentive Lilith who caresses Eve's breasts and tugs her nipples before tending to Eve's fruit.  Lilith brings Eve to climax by stimulating Eve's clitoris with her fingers adn thumbs.  Additionally, Lilith may moisten the length of her fingers and slip a finger or two inside of Eve.

Chapter 9  Velvet Rope

In this Daily Grind variation, bottom lies on her back, one leg outstretched and the other bent and pulled up and out for VIP access.  For balance, top may lean forward on one arm to brace herself as she rubs her velvet up and down bottom's thigh, teasing the bottom each time she brushes against her eager pussy.

Chapter 10 Welcome Back

Nothing says, "I missed you" like rimming her from behind as she bends over on her hands and knees and raises her luscious ass.  Keep the greeting clean by using a latex barrier, which won't dull the sensations.  The anus contains highly sensitive nerve endings similar to those in teh genitalia and capable of inducing much pleasure.  As arousal grows, licker reaches between her lover's legs to stroke her clit.

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INTRODUCTION
 
Lesbian Sex is intended to inspire and entice lovers to broaden their sexual repertoire. Our bodies have the potential to feel an array of sensations. When we more fervently explore our sexuality, both alone and with our lovers, we uncover hidden, uncultivated desires and discover newfound pleasure possibilities. Indulging in novel, sensual activities as well as revisiting the tried and true vanilla types of sex positions will also sharpen lovemaking skills and increase intimacy between lovers, one delicious experience at a time.
 
Each lovemaking experience is composed of intimate moments. These moments are physical, emotional, and intellectual communications and connections between lovers, and the best sex results happen when these moments flow. Experiment with different positions to suit your mood and facilitate the type of connection you’re into pursuing. For example, Deep Breathing (#25) will arouse your mind as much as it warms your pussy, as will French Cuff (#50), which explores the sexy intrigue of dominance and submission. Sometimes we’d rather our minds take a backseat during lovemaking. For these lustful moments, choose a position like Anti-gravity Girl (#97), which is pretty much purely physical. Some positions are sensory specific; Honey Bun (#15) is about touch and truly feeling your lover’s entire body, Lickety Split (#22) is about tasting, and Diamond in the Muff (#58) encourages the recipient to watch while she’s orally pleasured.
 
As you strive to become a self-assured lover and to experience more pleasurable and satisfying sex, do what makes you and your lover or lovers comfortable and happy. As always, practice clean, safe, honest, responsible, and consensual sex. Buy your toys and lubrication from reputable vendors who will share with you their sexpertise for proper use. Play within your abilities and never force yourself into demanding postures. When you choose and act out a position, the only expectation going into it should be to have fun and enjoy one another as you share in some fresh loving.
 
In addition to providing a sort of Kama Sutra for lesbians, Lesbian Sex introduces a lexicon inspired by colleagues, friends, and lovers. Double entendres, code words, cryptic phrases, and nicknames have always been part and parcel of the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) community. These turns of phrases can pass as flirting, convey desires and preferences, amuse, and trigger fond memories.
 
Tell her how you’re looking forward to taking a Joyride (#79) with her later.  Invite her to meet at your favorite café for a Tea for Two (#46), come over to your place for a Garden Party (#63), or join you at the breakfast bar for a Diamond Lil (#29). I invite you to Untangle Her Tingle (#91) in 101 ways, from Lilith and Eve (#1) to Gilding the Lily (#101), and in no particular order.

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